some thoughts on being happy
One of the main reasons wealth makes people unhappy is that it gives them too much control over what they experience. Then they ( including me ) tend to translate fantasies into reality instead tasting what reality itself has to offer. To fight this is an attitude to keep, putting more value on non-material things. We are constantly told that the way to happiness is through material possessions. “ Men who drive this sport car have all the women after them” , “If I could only own a special tool it would make me happy!” What does a man really want? He wants a feeling that his life makes sense. He wants the give-and-take of loving relationships. He wants to feel he has a place in the world and can make a contribution. And he wants the feeling that he is not standing still, but growing in those ways. Being poor certainly limit our options, but material wealth is an empty seduction. Putting all our energies into capturing wealth may make us rich, but it also can become an addiction that ca...